Let’s Talk Dirty…

A few days ago, while I was speaking at a conference, I told the attendees that it was time to talk dirty. Cancer disparities remains high, especially within the minority and underserved populations – we have no time to waste. My topic is urgent and I am on a mission to bring cancer awareness to as many people as possible. Therefore, I shared my own journey.

Although I was not 50 years old, I knew that I had to be cautious and diligent as my father had colon cancer. Colon cancer is cancer that is found in the large intestine which is in the lower section of the digestive system. When you hear the term colorectal cancer, it refers to the last few inches of the colon known as the rectal area. Colon cancer on it’s own is mainly found in the upper area of the large intestine. 

I was prompted to have a colonoscopy after moving my bowels and seeing some blood in the toilet. It was a shocking and scary moment. I had never seen anything like that in my entire bowel life. Needless to say, I had to make some calls. Thank God for cell phones, I took pictures and shared them with my Internist and of course my King (husband/best friend/partner in life). The concern here was that by the time one experiences symptoms of colon cancer, it may present a huge problem. 

In preparing for the procedure, I took my prescription of Golytely to the pharmacy. In addition, I purchased a 10 oz. bottle of Magnesium Citrate (Lemon Flavor) and a box of Dulcolax. The instructions to prepare for the procedure begins as early as seven days in advance. It is generally advised that one should stop taking any arthritic pain medications, Advil, Motrin and Coumadin, Plavix and other blood thinners – all of which would be discussed with your personal doctor to see if it applies to in your case when preparing for the colonoscopy. There are foods that you should avoid five days prior to the procedure – celery, corn, peas and tomatoes. The day before, you should not eat milk, ice cream, nuts, seeds or raw vegetables.

The Day Before

I enjoyed a light breakfast and a light lunch. I filled the powder mix of the Golytely bottle with water to the 4 liter mark and shook it like a martini mix. At 4:00PM, I took 4 Dulcolax tablets with water and then at 6:00PM it was time to drink up. This was the point of no return, you could only drink clear liquids and nothing at all after midnight except for the Golytely mix as directed. The rest of the evening was not for the faint at heart, it was a thorough cleansing of the digestive system. 


The Day is Here

Up early, raring and ready to get it done. I arrived ahead of time and before you know it, I was in and out. My King and I went out for lunch and then home. At times all was normal, we laughed and talked but my mind would wander off into the questions of the results. After a colonoscopy, it is advised that one should take it easy in resuming their meals. 

The Results

Off to the doctors two days later for my physical. I was anxious to hear the results of my colonoscopy. Needless to say, I was bracing myself – whatever the results, I will accept it and then I will move accordingly. Here it goes: “The good news is that you were a great read (referring to the colonoscopy), we were able to see everything clearly which is very important. At this statement, I felt myself shifting in the chair, crossing my legs and holding on firmly to the arms of the chair and for some reason, a smile was on my face. I knew there was more to come, seeing that the good news had already been shared. He continued: “We found a polyp, we took it out and sent it to the lab for testing. The results shows that it tested positive for cancer, it was very small and we caught it early.” As it would just happen, I remained calm, my smile still placed on my face as though I felt that all was well. I was alone hearing that I had tested positive for cancer. The smile was my way of soothing myself. My King, my children were all at work. After a thorough review of my results and my health regimen, the physical began. I could not wait to call my King. Should I wait until he gets home? I just couldn’t keep it to myself, I called. I shared the news as calmly and as positive as possible. After all, it was caught early. The King was just as calm and encouraging as expected. Shortly after our conversation, I received an email, it was my King expressing how the news of my results was like a punch. I knew that my children would not be able to handle the news very well but it was important for them to know – family health history is extremely important. This was a NEED to KNOW. My children cried, it’s just unnerving hearing the results. They understood and were relieved to know that it was caught early and now they too have to be on the alert for their own health. Next up calling my siblings.

Background

In many cases there are small polyps that are often benign/noncancerous. In some cases, the polyps develop into colon cancer. There may be few or no symptoms. Fortunately for me, the source of the bleeding was from an internal hemorrhoid. If I could give it a hug and a kiss I would, that hemorrhoid was responsible for the early catch of my cancer. On the other hand, I am still processing the fact that it was positively identified as cancer. Now when I speak on the importance of early detection, I speak from experience.

If you notice any of the following, you may need to call your doctor:
*When you notice a change in your bowel habits such as an incomplete bowel movement, constipation, diarrhea or a change in the consistency of your stool
*Rectal bleeding or blood in your stool
*Persistent abdominal discomfort, such as cramps, gas or pain
*Tired or weak
*Weight loss without trying


World Cancer Day


It is the day where all cancer organizations, cancer care facilities, patients, advocates, survivors and supporters unite in bringing a collective voice to the disease. #WorldCancerDay is trending on the social media forums and for today, there is a full on united force in addressing cancer with a unified hashtag across social media. Over the years, there has been great progress in cancer research and treatment. Some cancers have seen a marked improvement in survival outcomes. However, there is still work to do. We can find great hope in Big Data as we need the experts to share the information and move forward with getting their work out to the patient community.

Our goal is to keep updated on the latest progress in the areas of cancer research and clinical trials to keep our cancer community informed. Although they have many reasons to be skeptical, one of the main concerns within the communities that we serve – is having access to clinical trials. There is an overwhelming feeling of anxiety when one is diagnosed with cancer. The expenses, the fear of losing a job, fear of death and if one becomes a survivor, the fear of recurrence, and the ability to provide for the family or even themselves takes a tremendous toll.

Over the past few years, SCRC, Inc. has participated in Hill Day where we head to Capital Hill to meet with our leaders in Congress. We have discussed a range of topics from access to affordable and quality healthcare, to having a clearly written plan for the patient to explain their diagnosis, prognosis, treatments as well as the expected symptoms.

This year we will be bringing cancer awareness throughout the country. We are building teams of ambassadors as we prepare to have cancer chats to churches, cancer support groups, theaters, colleges and universities. There will be a documentary screening of The Day That Changed My Life cancer an uncertain journey followed by a Q&A. We want to be a part of making progress by being a source of awareness and empowerment.

If you are interested in becoming and ambassador or hosting a cancer screening, please contact info@thedaythatchangedmylife.org. We look forward to having you on board!

The Day That Changed My Life – Documentary Tour

After losing my brother to cancer 4 weeks and 4 days from his diagnosis date, I am on a mission to get cancer awareness out to the communities with a special emphasis on the underserved population. The goal is to have cancer screenings of the documentary as well as a book tour to discuss the importance of prevention, early detection, paying attention to the signals and symptoms that our bodies often sends us, knowing our health history and more.

The documentary The Day That Changed My Life – cancer an uncertain journey is an exploration into the lives of those who have been touched by cancer. It is a moving, inspiring and uplifting journey and has had multiple showings in the theater. Hear the stories from the perspective of the parents, the children, the best friend, the clergy, the healthcare team and most importantly – the cancer patient.

The book tour may be separate and it will be similar to the screenings as it will not only be held at a typical book store, but libraries, cancer support groups, college campuses – specifically targeting social workers, psychology and health professional students, church health ministry departments, book clubs, etc. The books can be made available at the screenings as well.

Please let me know if you are interested and open to joining me on my mission by hosting a viewing or book discussion. Moving forward with bringing cancer awareness in 2019. Are you on board?

The Day That Changed My Life Documentary
http://www.thedaythatchangedmylife.org/

Three Weeks

Candida’s Journey


Candida in the Summer

I have no idea where this came from, it’s like it came from nowhere. I was doing well. I recently lost my mother suddenly. I moved from Atlanta back to NY to handle her affairs, that’s when I found out that I had cancer. Breast cancer. If that was not enough, I was unemployed, yes, no job. I am grieving and I am trying to get through the loss of my mother and now this. My brother and I are not as close as we should be, I have a daughter who has her own life to live and I do not want to burden her with my problems. I was literally alone, feeling lonely.

The treatment was grueling, I had no money and had to stay in New York at Hope Lodge during the treatments. My friends really came through and helped me. It was embarrassing to be in a state of asking others for help. My high school sisters were among some of my biggest supporters. They all pitched in to help, they visited with me while I was in treatment and they checked on me by text messages and phone calls.

This cancer is taking a toll on me. I am emotionally drained. I try to take my mind off my current state by making gifts for my friends. I cannot keep thinking about what my life was like before cancer, I used to be an educator. I worked very hard to have a successful life. I made it to become a principal. Now, I don’t have a job, I don’t have any money and I am desperate. I need to know how this will work out.

My daughter is in Atlanta, she is having a baby, I am sick and unemployed. How are we going to make it through. I have to concentrate on getting better but it is hard. I am losing my apartment in Atlanta. I have to get there to get my things at the same time I have to get my chemotherapy treatment.

My treatment ends, I am in remission, I moved back to Atlanta. My daughter had a baby girl. Everything seems to be working out. We are moving back to New York. I am going back into the workforce. We are happy to move closer to my family and friends. My hair is growing back, all is well.

Although my job is in New York, we decided on staying in New Jersey. I haven’t been feeling too well. At first we thought it might be the flu as it is September and the flu season begins around this time I guess, but after going to the hospital, it was the worst case possible. The cancer had returned. The cancer was aggressive and has spread to my brain. In a matter of weeks, things went from worse to fatal. The doctors said there was nothing more to help and that I didn’t have much time left. They said that I had three weeks left. I told my daughter that I wanted to have a Celebration of Life party with my family and friends. We planned it for the following weekend and it was beautiful. They decorated, brought lots of food, danced, laughed and prayed. It was one of the best nights I had in a long time. (Excerpt from The Day That Changed My Life Book).

Celebration of Life Party in the Fall

Welcome to SOLUTIONS Cancer Resource Center, Inc.

SOLUTIONS Cancer Resource Center (SCRC), Inc. a non-profit resource center that provides information and assistance to cancer-diagnosed clients, their families and friends. Our goal is to serve as a liaison and an advocate for the under-served communities, focusing on educating and empowering others with the information needed to improve as well as understand their health and well-being. We are actively involved in educating and informing the community about the resources that are available to assist those with cancer, while promoting prevention and early detection through various free and low cost screenings that exist throughout the city.
It is our pleasure to serve you with any questions you may have as you try to navigate through your recent diagnosis. We will help you with understanding the various options that are available to you through treatment process as well as the treatment facilities.